The sun is shining, the snow is melting, and our hearts are beating faster with the emotion of a new cycle. Spring is a time of rebirth and renewal. Let us find inspiration in the processes of nature. Spring is change, transformation, life…
I invite you to reflect on the way that you relate to others. I know that often, without even meaning to, you get involved in destructive relationships that don’t lead you to a good place. And little by little, your light starts to go out. Lies, invasion of space, constant criticism, co-dependence, aggression, manipulation, among other negative attitudes, make it difficult for you to achieve the ultimate goal of life: to be happy.
The worst thing is to stay in a relationship even when you know that it’s destructive. You have to be honest with yourself, and accept when you need to let go. You can lie to the whole world, but not to yourselves. The next step is to be brave enough to distance yourself. What happens between two people is never the fault of just one. Don’t’ worry about figuring out who is guilty. It’s a waste of time.
The decision to leave a destructive relationship is always up to you. Remember something very important: It’s not about fighting or confronting, but rather about accepting and letting go. Get away from toxic people. Not everybody who crosses your path, need to stay with you until the end. Take the good from every relationship and then keep on moving forward.
Don’t wait for others to change for you. The only person you can change is yourself. To love means freedom. Learn how to leave behind the things that cause you pain to rebuild yourselves from a space of light. We all deserve love, peace, freedom, and happiness in our lives. Don’t sacrifice yourselves; it doesn’t help anyone to hang on to pain.
Don’t be afraid of endings, but rather of never having started something. Remember that staying in a destructive relationship can stop you from experiencing true love. True love doesn’t destroy, but instead nourishes, creates, and inspires.
You only have one life; don’t waste it! Today, decide to be happy. It is time for a fresh start. You will never flourish if you are surrounded by destructive relationships. Use the power of balance and harmony to clean your life from persons that do not support you in becoming the best version of yourself. Bloom without resentment.